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About to get back into the dating game..

Workman3886

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Well my divorce is almost here and it's been a really long 5 1/2 months. Needless to say it's been pretty miserable because I had to keep from doing anything stupid and getting caught, and then she would file infidelity causing me to lose everything.

Pretty sure my game is gone, I mean I been with the same chick for 7 years, I can't even remember a corny pick up line LMAO.

So any useful tips from my extended family would be super.
 
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Xer0 SiN

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i dunno man. getting back in the "game" is tough. trust me, i know. i saw my marriage fall apart while i was in iraq. all i can suggest is just be yourself. the girls come along, no really need to try to force anything. corny pickup lines is for the one night stands, unless thats the route youre trying to go for lol.
 

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yea man like xero said it will come in time, no need to rush back in you know. see whats out there and if you find her sooner than you think then so be it, if not dont sweat it
 

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A few one night stands are golden for now, Don't want to sound like a chump but building back my confidence is probably the first thing I need to do! I'm not going to get crazy and jump into anything serious, first I just want to get my life in line, maybe supercharge the X!
 

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ive been divorced for over 4 years now from a 5 year stint and havent been in anything serious since...ive discovered so many hobbies and not having anybody breathing down my neck about it is pretty great...first thing i tell any woman that seems interested is i like living the way i live and doing what i love to do and nobody is going to change that...if she accepts that then ill give her a chance. use this time to find out about yourself and get into something you really love doing without anybody stopping you..patience is a must..please dont rush into anything that'll just end up being the same shit as before....also you need to come meet up with us in new orleans one of these days!!
 

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Don't stress it. Girls are everywhere. I wish I could tell you more but I don't want it posted on the Internet for everyone to see. Just talk to them. Find something where you can be around a lot of women. Where I work, women are all around me. In some ways, it is like being in paradise, in other ways, it is like being in hell. Just say, hi, to them, and ask questions. Don't ever just answer a question without asking another question. You know what to do. Just be yourself. I would tell you a lot but it would sound like I am a player, and I am not a player, not even wanting to be one. Hey, remember the show, The Pickup Artist. I wish I would have learned all of that when I was a kid.
 

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I read an article that was talking about how in the long run it's cheaper to just hire an "escort".... Saves you a lot on dates especially if you're not looking for anything serious.
 

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Stay out of bars. Join clubs (associations, that is), volunteer, take up a new sport that women also play.

Oh, and don't take advice from an old dude who has never--well, hardly ever--picked up a girl in a bar. ;)

Steve
 

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just go about your business and eventually someone will catch your eye or you'll catch theirs. and most times if you catch theirs they won't be too pushy with your hobbies and stuff you like to do. find someone that likes doing those hobbies as much as you do or it will never work.
 

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Yeah i got one.... Come here to SoFla. find yourself a bangin Colombian or even a spanish chick that will take care of yo azz and make you hold your nuts evertime you see her cuz shes so hot!!!!!.... words of inspiration i hope...lol... but its the truth man.
 

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Well if you're into redneck chicks perhaps this line:

"Hey babe, NICE TOOTH!!""

Sorry, nothing useful to add, been married 13 yrs now LOL


Demented Dave in Boring Bagram, Afghanistan
 

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LOL, I love the feedback guys! I guess right now i should just focus on me a little more, I've been in the gym a lot lately and dropped a heavy amount of weight, 35 pounds to my goal!

I've been looking for a new outside hobby/fitness thing to do on weekends, and off days. I asked the same question on facebook and got some really odd answers. Been thinking road bike/mountain bike, something on the water, wake boarding maybe, hell I don't know, I'm pretty much game for anything that isn't obnoxiously expensive and can keep me active and busy.
 

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Just try this guys tactics. Seem to work for him! haha

[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hgxTXwJpNDo[/ame]
 

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Vitalyzd. funny dude. has many funny videos.
 

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Treat others as you would like to be treated.



Just watch out of the gold diggin hoes
 

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They might try........

OK then..... wrap your tool

PS have time for you..... dont settle down just cause... get to know you again.... have fun with friends and experience life single..... its great!
 

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They might try........

OK then..... wrap your tool

PS have time for you..... dont settle down just cause... get to know you again.... have fun with friends and experience life single..... its great!

Oh I will be, I actually went to Walmart, not once but twice this week, I must say I've been living on edge lol
 
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