that's why i love my wife! my wife doesn't expect me to buy her random stuff all the time. my wife rarely wears makeup. but she busts her ass at home watching our 3-yr-old girl. i honestly think i've spent more money on the truck in the last year than i have on my wife. or maybe it's a tie. lol. idk and we're not keeping track of it either. my wife knows our financial priorities. she also knows that if she expects to get pampered, then i wouldn't have married her. lol. that's my 0.02